Why does the burst of happiness you get when your
life improves rarely last—whether you start eating heirloom tomatoes, get a
promotion, or marry your true love? The answer is "hedonic
adaptation," the phenomenon in which you quickly get used to better
circumstances. Recent research points to four strategies that can help keep you
from habituating to happiness. —Laura Entis
GIVE IT UP
Going without your favorite food or activity for a few weeks will help you
savor it more, finds a recent study in Social, Psychological, and Personality Science.
"We have to revirginize ourselves," says Jordi Quoidbach, one of the
study's authors. He recommends a temporary-deprivation strategy for
reappreciating everything from chocolate to sex.
REVISIT YOUR LIFE WITHOUT
Because we tend to take things for granted, it's helpful to picture our lives without an improvement. In her book, The Myths of Happiness, Sonja Lyubomirsky advises going a step further: Try living as you did when you were a starving student or going without phoning your best friend. You'll appreciate your good fortune all the more.
TAKE A BREAK
Interrupting a pleasurable activity, even for a minute or so, makes it more
enjoyable—it jolts us out of adapting to the experience. This applies to
everything from massages to TV shows...even time off. Try multiple short trips
rather than one long one, suggests Quoidbach, so you don't have time to adjust
to the vacation lifestyle.
RELISH AMATEUR STATUS
New research indicates that if you consider yourself an expert at
anything—from fine dining to traveling—you will savor it less. Don't take
yourself too seriously, offers Quoidbach. Having a jaded, blasé attitude toward
wine, for example, can ruin even fine vintages for you.
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